3 Simple Toddler Language Activities That Will Be Of More Benefit Than Pre-K Prep!

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There are actually hundreds of ordinary toddler language activities that can be made extraordinary.   But I want to share with you how to turn 3 everyday activities into wonderful learning experiences for your toddler.  These are routines that I bet each and every one of you do many times with your child.

Children are constantly learning, even if you don’t realize it.  You do not need to explicitly teach a young child something in order for learning and brain development to occur.  In fact, it is better for your child to be exposed to learning that occurs in a more natural way.

So let’s take a look at how you can turn these 3 ordinary routines into extraordinary learning experiences for your child!

The Park

Taking your child to the park often becomes monotonous for many parents.  You put your child into the swing and push them back and forth.  Maybe they will go down the slide a few times and then it’s time to head back home.

But I hope I can change your mind on how you view a trip to the neighborhood park.  Here are a few ideas that will benefit your toddler’s speech and language skills:

♦  Upon arrival let your child decide what she wants to do.  Pause and see where she goes.  If she heads to the swing for example, narrate her actions.  “Oh, you want to swing”.  See if she will indicate that she wants you to lift her up  by either saying “up” or by pointing, signing or gesturing such as lifting her arms up.   Give her the chance to communicate with you before doing what you think she wants.

♦  Continue to narrate throughout the activity – “I can lift you onto the swing”, “here’s a big push”, “you’re going so high”.  Make sounds and noises such as “weee”.

♦  After a few pushes, stop.  See if your child will indicate that she wants the activity to continue either through gestures (e.g. kicking her legs) or through words such as “more” or “more swing”.

♦  If your child is using single words, use this opportunity to expand her words.  If she says “more” you can repeat with “more swinging”.  Keep it simple but try to use correct grammar whenever possible.

♦  Talk about actions such as running, jumping, skipping, blowing (take some bubbles to the park), catching (a ball, a bug, etc.), sliding, swinging, walking.

♦  Opposites: up/down, in/out, fast/slow, big/small

♦  Play hide and seek and use prepositions such as: on, in, under, behind, in front, beside (some of these prepositions are quite abstract, so don’t expect your toddler to use them, but exposing her to these words is great for learning later on).

♦  Write her name in the sand, let her trace the letters if she wants (don’t push it though, go with what she is interested in).

♦  Talk about things you see: birds flying, other kids playing, clouds in the sky, the color of the slide, etc.

♦  Social skills such as turn taking (if another child is waiting to get on the swing or go down the slide), keeping hands to yourself, etc.

I could go on and on, but you get the idea.  Use going to the park as a time to introduce your child to new vocabulary whenever possible.

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Bath Time

Most children look forward to having a bath and getting to play in the water.  But did you know that this routine activity is about more than just keeping your toddler clean?  There are so many opportunities for language and learning that I have written an entire article dedicated to bath toys and the learning that can occur.

So instead of writing it all out again, why not just read 10 Cool Bath Toys Toddlers And Parents Will Love!

The first part of the article has all of the learning opportunities associated with bath time.  The remainder of the article features bath toys that will help expand the language building opportunities.

Since bath time involves playing in water, you might also be interested in The Language Benefits Of Water Play With Preschoolers!

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Meal Time

Here’s another activity that happens on a daily basis. Rather than rushing through a meal, take this opportunity to expose your child to new vocabulary.

Talk about what is being served for dinner. Don’t worry that he might not know what a sweet potato is. The more he hears the words, the sooner he will understand them and use them himself.

Some ideas for language development and learning during meals include:

♦ Talk about textures and taste – soft, hard, crunchy, sweet, salty, spicy, sour, etc.
♦ Label different foods
♦ Wait for your child to indicate she wants to eat either through words, gestures or signs
♦ Colors – casually mention the color of certain kinds of food (e.g. red apple, green beans)
♦ Count Cheerios – my kids loved this one!
♦ Shapes – for example, a cheerio/grape/tomato is a circle, piece of cheese is a square, cracker is a triangle, etc. Again, remember to keep it natural and part of the conversation.
♦ Grasp – picking up small pieces of food between fingers, or using a spoon/fork.

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♥ You might also like: Why Mom Was Right About Family Mealtimes! ♥

As you can see, you can practice many different skills in the these everyday scenarios. Your child will learn a lot more in a natural setting with these regularly occurring routines, than they will in a preschool environment being explicitly taught letters, numbers, shapes, etc.

A toddler or preschooler does not need to learn the “letter of the day”. They will grow and thrive more from natural experiences like going to the park, having a bath or eating a meal!

Don’t get me wrong, I am not against daycare or preschool (both of my kids went to a great daycare center), but don’t feel like you need to send your child to school at an early age for them to get ahead academically.  There are many toddler language activities you can easily do at home in a very natural setting.

What are some of your favorite everyday activities that can be turned into extraordinary learning experiences? Please share your thoughts in the comments below.


  1. Diana Worley

    I love you article and as far as I am concerned, you are spot on! I did these same kinds of activities with my children when they were little. Every moment is a teachable moment! Just living life teaches children so much. We had a long flight of stairs at our house when they were little (13 steps) when they learned to walk and we did the stairs we always counted the stairs so at a very young age they could count to 13. Here was the bonus, what they figured out on their own. The stairway was open with a bannister only 1/2 way up the rest was a wall. When the kids needed a time out, they sat on the stairs just past the wall ( the 7th step). One day when his time out was done, my son who was about 4 at the time, came and asked what half of 13 was because there were 6 steps below him and 6 above him where he sat. Now even though I had a little explaining to do the simple things in life made him think about the relationship of numbers. Had we never counted the steps when he was tiny. he may have just sat on those stairs resenting the time out, instead of using the time to think.
    Living life is valuable indeed!

    1. Tanya (Post author)

      Thanks for your great comment Diana. You are right. There are teachable moments everywhere. And there is no need o say something like “today we are going to count”. Just do what you did, casually count the stairs as you are going up and down. I did this with my children as well.

      It’s wonderful to see the connections children make, just like your son did!

  2. Travis Smithers

    Great post for toddlers language activities. The examples you give for what you can do to help with the development of a child is so true.

    I never thought of it before but what you suggest is so easy to incorporate into your daily routine.

    You point out an excellent way to make improvements with quality time you already spend with your child. To pay a little more attention to how you spend the time with them on the activities and the way you do them would create a better learning experience for them.

    Thanks for the tips.

    1. Tanya (Post author)

      Thanks for your comment Travis! I really want to show parents that the best way to help their child learn and develop is through experiences that can be enhanced through adult child interaction. So put away the flash cards and play!


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